: Were you a perfect teen who got along with everyone and never said anything unkind to anyone ever? I dont think she was any worse than any other teenage girl by any means. Youve got to be kidding right?! Kirsten wasnt a bully. Room 2160 400NIB. Thats different, and usually those were the ones that were irritating and annoying. Kellie Martin: Angela Delvecchio - IMDb I wouldnt doubt it cause thats how much she is hated in Orinda. I think you take things way to personal like Bernadette did, I believe MissKiwi Bernadette took things so serious that it became serious and a fatal obsession. We all have someone we dont like. Angela J Delvecchio | University of Michigan School of Nursing Its sad, but when all is said and done its not worth it. Senseless. She has Kirstens demeanor. She still is as far as Im concerned. It wont bring Kirsten back. The alternate title for this psychological thriller is Death of a Cheerleader (which is, perhaps, more to the point and more of a draw for those viewers still bitter because they never made the squad). If it was national news, I missed it. Thats how they rolled. We bought a do up property. Upper middle class at least. that HS was a tough place especially for girls. She deserves it. Do I believe Kirsten was a Mean girl (bully) not at all, I believe she had those she didnt like and may of been Snooty towards that got on her nerves. We used to say Kirsten had everything, says one classmate. BTW, Bernadette was not bullied or the lonely girl the movie portrayed her, (she had lots of friends) was popular So you that said Kirsten bullied her, get the facts straight. As for the girls acting like Hoes if they have PTSD from it maybe they should of thought of the consequences, before they did it. Very, very mean. Bernadette had plenty of other friends, she was in that group, Kirsten didnt have anything against Bernadette, if she would of left her alone, eventually they may of became friends, no she couldnt wait, wanted it all right now and pushed and forced her way into it. Thank God Im out of high school now and dont have to deal with all that social crap. [1] According to Protti's later testimony, she had planned to take Costas to the party to befriend her, but Costas became angry when she was told that there was no dinner for the new "Bobbies." her friends portray her as an Angel of course they do, but she did make snide remarks to people who werent like her. I wasnt a cheerleader at all, I was in some clubs at school,( not Bobbies or Atlantis) but Spanish. This is Bern or her sister, or even BFF. Leave a review . And she killed her because she was jealous and that she would have been humiliuated if Kirsten told people at school that she was admiring her. So think before you get that angry cause there is no turning back from it. MDI Hospital: Angela DelVecchio, APRN, FNP I disagree with you. We get it now, we already got it. Thats a much more obvious motive. Call Angela S Delvecchio on phone number (207) 288-5119 for more information and advice or to book an appointment. The reason why Bernadette killed Kirsten is because Kirsten didnt appreciated the fact that she was lured out of her house under the pretence of a Bobbies sorority initiation dinner by someone she wasnt friends or even acquaintances with. Bernadette is hiding out, dont know about the depression, but she is in hiding and dont want her location exposed now, not sure if she is married anymore, but shes not working, she is somewhere out of State close to a family member. Her friends got to where they avoided her if possible. She was also a very good student who did well academically in school. Doesnt make her a killer, thats being a teenager but dont make it sound like she just said shut up thats unrealistic. Was Kirsten a smart aleck , dont know but tell me a teen girl who isnt! I hear a lot of them still get together on Occasions, and others have moved on. I dont believe she deserved to die, but she should have received a serious reality check. I could call you out but I wont. She didnt like Nancy and a few others. Shes still a Murderer and will never be anything but, as long as shes Alive, I wont forgive her for it, and neither will Kirstens family and friends. Talking peoples business again, McDonald may not like her name being used. Orinda was not Beverly Hills. She was the (In crowd) Bernadette was desiring to be the incrowd. 5.0 Takes time to answer my questions. They have also lived in Hanford, CA. Karen, its true, Bernadette was obsessed with Kirsten . people arent to worried about this case any longer. Maybe Snooty, but no Bully. Teens are teens. An example that shows that Bernadette didnt have respect for Kirstens family and shows how detached Bernadette was from killing Kirsten was that she appeared to have no inhibitions about attending Kirstens funeral. She never had words with Kirsten, just said Kirsten hardly talked to her, maybe once or twice in her entire life. As I are, I think of all Kirsten has missed and how life changing it was to have your daughter murdered this way and then dragged through the media as a tori spelling played psycho who deserved what she got. I read a lot of nice things about Kirsten as well, so she couldnt of been all that bad. Google It, it sure will tell you. The case is ancient history so why is it constantly being rehashed over and over. Kirsten was well liked and cared. Angela Delvecchio currently lives a married life with her husband and child in Portland, Oregon. I never seen her bully. Doesnt it seem weird that Bernadettes sister would have an 18-inch knife for cutting tomatoes? Kirsten May of been just like that, I couldnt tell you thats true. I never wished for Kirsten to die like she did, that was horrible. Girls, women at any age can be so horrible. Absolutely not. Bernadette planned everything down to the last detail, even telling Kirstens Mum to ask Kirsten not to tell anyone about the supposed dinner that night. RELATED: 90210's Tori Spelling Can't Be on Real Housewives Because She's 'Too Nice'. 86ers you want to forgive thats up to you, it would be nice if something could be worked out and you all could go back to the wya things were and not are. Every Murdered person was once someones child, parent, sibling or spouse. This makes sense since shows like Beverly Hills 90210 were all the rage. Bernadette only got in that Exclusive Club cause a friend who had pull nominated her. Yes we all feel that way, but nothing can be done about it, decision has already been made. Kirsten teased Joanna and Joanna got it all wrong to. Kirsten, who appeared tense but not terrified, said, My friend got weird on me. She asked to call home. Teen girls are all like Kirsten was described, dont see how she was worse than any other teen girl around. I was in 8 the grade with Kirstens brother Peter and Bernadette had babysat me years prior and was very sweet. Word around town was that K was stabbed 18 times. The sad thing is that adults act the same way. And only 7 years in jail with parrole?! Kirsten was mostly nice to Everyone, so she had a few people she didnt like, we all have. Most people would find that bizarre and off-putting and would certainly not deserve to be killed over it. Kirsten was attending cheerleading camp, living in a dorm at St Marys College in nearby Moraga, when Berit Costas received a seemingly uneventful call on Thursday, June 21, 1984. Regardless no one deserves to die like that. It sounds like something Berns BFF called Kirsten, that or Virginia Protti, it is someone close to Bern. Kirsten wasnt Super Rich like Melrose Place, family was well off, so was Bernadettes. She didnt give examples because she wasnt bullied by Kirsten. Did Kirsten deserve to die over it. The best result we found for your search is Angela E Delvecchio age 40s in Saint Clairsville, OH. Kirstens friendship meant so much to her, she would go on and on about it. She was outgoing even as a nurse, but now, I hear she dont really associate with anyone outside of family. Join Facebook to connect with Angela Delvecchio and others you may know. Bernadette was not only bitter and resentful that she was not selected for cheerleading or the yearbook committee, but she was also envious of Kirstens well-known life and the success she had achieved. YOU NEED TO LEAVE BERNADETTE TO GOD, AND YOUR NOT HIM. Office Rating. Im sorry but not sorry to be petty but Bernadette has a huge fg nose and hamster cheeks topped with a double chin. People need others not bullying. Regardless of what it's called, the important message is the same: bullying has a profound effect on young people and can cause them to do harm to either themselves or others. The release of Protti was met with vehement opposition from Costass parents. Think of what youre sayingfragile ppl dont turn to homicide. She didnt deserve to die. I hope she prays from the bottom of her heart, because the pain she caused the Costas well, she will have to pray forever!!! I heard also Kirsten was just Self Absorbed to, but not a Bully. I cant stand snobby bitches who put others down and bully them. Material on this site is provided for purposes of education, criticism, commentary, cultural reporting, entertainment, historical reference, and news reporting/analysis. You need help. But would a real student please come forward and reveal yourself.. How is that possible. I believe the conversation was very bizarre to, about desperation of a friendship. How is sweet referred to Murder? Kirsten was the energy of the house, says her mother. So she was a Bully, she is not here to defend herself any longer, so youre the Bully now. No there were several girls bullied, but Bernadette wasnt one. If you did your research, you would know that Kirsten didnt bully Bernadette. I dont care how old your comment is, I just have to reply to that bullst. It was full of middle class and upper- middle class families. Self Absorbed yes. After the terrible event, Protti legally changed her name and shifted to another place to start a new family. She is Crazy obviously, has enough problems and has to deal with murdering Kirsten and that doesnt help. Im sorry if I offended anybody here with my earlier comments. Would you say the same if Bernadette did suicide? Kirsten was a hugging person and went around joking, she would tease all of us, it was harmless. You know whats really sad? She possesses plenty of power while also easily being one of the top pitchers in the game. Smelled so bad. Thisb isnt about Columbine, its about the Kirsten Costas case. No one have to take the greatest gift God gives,LIFE. Of course its done and over with, and people arent forgiving and never let you forget anything you did, she made a enormous mistake, that cant change, but she does regret it and as for her and the Costas family making Peace, cant even tell you how much truth is in that, but Im sure she reached out and owned her part, but nothing she can do to change what the outcome cost them. Her self esteem was riding on Kirstens approval! It is done and over and over 3 decades. That dont make her a terrible person cause she hand probaly only a handful she did t like. Maybe she did something to make it bad. She looks like she would have lit up a room. People are going by that. She once told Kirsten to shut up in biology and thats why everyone thought shed done it. Theres no excuse for murder. Hollywood tends to make villains heroes, and innocent people into villains. She practiced constantly at home in the family room and sometimes at Diane MacDonalds house, in front of the windows at night, to see her reflection. Social Work is in my soul Angela Delvecchio - @Ang_Delvecchio Santa Mira High School View the profiles of professionals named "Angela Delvecchio" on LinkedIn. Bernadette made a horrible decision by ending a girls life, if she left her alone, B wouldnt be in the mess she got herself in, she kept pushing for her friendship. Dont let that Sweet Melancholy fool anyone, she was not that unless you were in the group. I also believe Nancy and Joanna were nice girls that had thier moments also. Karen I believe on that fateful night In The car Bernadette was pushing a friendship was was adamant and persistent about it. Sticking up for a Murderer youre Pathetic. While she lacked the blond good looks of many of her friends, she had beautiful olive skin, and when she pulled her curly hair brown with golden highlights back from her forehead, her mother thought Kirsten looked like a Vogue model. To the fellow classmates of 1986 Miramonte, so sorry if your World crumbled cause it wasnt meant to be that way, but you got to know that it was t any picnic for Bernadette as well, and if she could set time back and do all over, she would of left the situation with Kirsten alone to start with. Cause Bernadette was stuck up to, or thats how Bernadette appeared. No excuse for what she did, BTW she was not the poor White trash the Movie deployed her to be, she had a nice home, and was just as well off as Kirstens family, lived on the better side of town. So dont feel Sorry for her. I got cut off before I had a chance to say anything else. I didnt know Kirsten very well. People make their own reputation and choices in life whether they are bad or good. In the spring of 1984, Kirsten had been asked to join the Bob-o-links, or Bobbies, an elite sorority-like organization of thirty to thirty-five of the best looking, most popular girls in school. She's got a crafty slowball, a nasty right hook, and a . They were mutually aquatinted. She didnt bully Bernadette either. She refused to. Not a plaine jane.get real. Bernadette had plenty of friends who loved her. Kirstens friends dont sit and discuss Morbid depressing stuff to start with. I believe she made a clumsy pass at Kirsten, or said something weird, and Kirsten got all freaked. This Virus is killing all the World over, esp. Bernadette went to private grade school called St. Perpetuas in Lafayette Ca. She let 2:girls take the blame. I heard Bernadette was Snobbish also as well. They still do Bernadette and always will, so she has to look over her head every second. If the person that Tori spelling played in that movie Was indeed Kristen Costas attitude toward other students then anybody couldve seen this coming. Girls are graded by twenty judges, and are told their fate at an Academy Awards-type ceremony where outgoing cheerleaders pluck names from envelopes, giving the winners kisses and flowers. If it hadnt of been Kirsten, itd been her childhood friend, or someone else, cause Bern has Jealousy Issues. Love your integrity on all this. It had nothing to do with Bullying wasnt even about that, it was about forging a friendship. Bernadette tried her best to forge a friendship under false pretenses and you Justify her actions, you must either be Bernadette or her sister, or a close friend or Relative. I hear Bernadette is depressed a lot these days. You get on here and write comments all day long, repeating yourself over and over and over again. she threatened to tell everyone at school the next day, she didnt tell Alex Arnold ( the Man who drove her home) again it was to insane he probaly would of freaked and she didnt want to scare him with the details. She fit in and was as popular as Kirstens 2 close friends (Diane and Stacy), Bernadette wanted more. "[3] When Costas could not reach her parents by telephone, Alex Arnold drove her home, noticing that the Protti family's Pinto was following them. The goth was actually into New Wave music and was not goth people at the school just thought she was weird for dying her hair New Wave because it was such a conservative school. Plenty of Italians are natural blondes. How? She could block it out of her mind (her words). Others are not so lucky. we all need to teach our children to respect the feelings of others. You appear to be making up scenarios in your head about Bernadettes life and have difficulty differentiating fact from fiction. A Friend to Die For premiered in September and was the highest-rated TV movie of 1994. How did you talk and act around those girls, ask yourself that! Killing is still not an excuse but Id have to say the real losers out of this situation are Bernadettes parents. Beauty and the Beast and D are still the Life of a Party at times, esp Reunions. The 2nd version of Death of a Cheerleader is more like Kirsten to a degree. Even religion, which is supposed to be about mostly how you treat others. They were snooty and cocky but not mean. What preppy teenaged girl doesnt think shes better than the next? Kristen was adorable. Bernadette even tried to point her finger at Joanna as the one who killed Kirsten. Kirsten was in the class of 1986, Bernadette admitted to many friends she craved the wealthy life, and hated that her own parents (whom I feel sorry for) were so old. Well to a degree maybe, but Bernadette stalked her and longed fro a friendship. Even so, I said before, and Ill say it again, still no excuse to murder. I believe that the real number was held by the cops. Bernadette is still a Pathetic Loser, and always will be. One version is that she was so good and bullied and another that she is a monster prepare to kill just like that? She was released the following year. She has Mental issues and always will. Especially someone who not only blames the murder victim for her brutal murder, but also blames her innocent parents? A little over an hour later, an agitated Kirsten rang the bell at a strangers door. Im betting youre some white chick who wouldnt know. All. [3] Costas attended Miramonte High School and was a member of the school's varsity swim team and the cheerleading squad. Deadly Women portrayed Kirsten differently, she was kind of like that, but cut up more and more bouncier. What? I hear she was Caddy and Stuck up, I dont even know if thats true, but she wasnt a Bully. How did Kirsten push Bernadette so far? She was good at that. The movie eve swapped their hair colours you cant take it too seriously although it did iclude certain claims of Beradettes like that Kirsten commented on Bernadette having cheap ski boots although all she said was that Bernadette made some comment not even what the comment was and that Kirstens voice was unexcited when she saw it was Bernadette. She was full of life. Showing ratings for: 322 Main St, Bar Harbor, ME, 04609 . But it wasnt a big fallout, just words between them.. Karen, where are you? Why deliberately refrain from giving examples if she could have been accused of first degree murder? Also, Kirsten was upper middle class and lived in a less expensive area than Bernadette. very sad. I do believe she had some she didnt like, (but who didnt)! Angela Delvecchio is a married woman who resides in Portland, Oregon with her husband and their child at the present time. Kirsten told her she embarrassed her, and, she didnt want to be around her. Who cares about that, that is no reason to be lured from your own home and murdered by a psycho. I think Kirsten was friends with Bernadette or she would of never gotten in her car, Kirsten was funny who she associated with. She looked like Kirsten with her curly hair, and the Life of the Party like Kirsten. If someone from Orinda ran into her, especially one of Kirstens friends, they would probably spit at her. Ms. Angela Delvecchio, Nurse Practitioner | Bar Harbor, ME | WebMD It wasnt so much how you dressed, or how much money your family had, it was on how you acted.. Our Gymn Teacher was impressed on how a lot of us girls got along, only time we bickered is when we played Soccer We were a family.. Not true, you said you knew Bernadette and Kirsten both! Like Missy Availa saying she was roughish and wild and Loose, didnt give Karen Severson and Laura Doyle any right to murder her either. Im not sure about that case, but Kirsten I cant picture her being a bully, yes telling how she felt, that she did well. Angela Delvecchio Today: Where Is Her Current Location? 2020 Kirstens family and Berns family were both Well off, Bern lived in a Richer part. Not just the 2 accussed. They werent socially accepted on account of the choices they made.. Berns BFF chose to support her( that set her apart) In Orinda if you act like a Bad A.. you wont be accepted. Finally, as an aside, I think some people need to learn the difference between fiction and reality. I just felt like I didnt fit in at Miramonte or Orinda. Her one friend in the group changed, she now fights for womens right. I guess that makes their daughter better than anybody elses. She is still notorious for her heinous act of murdering a young girl named Kirsten Marina Costas in 1984. Abe that was your downfall. Im sure you were a big Smart Aleck. if you came at her the wrong way like Bernadette did, or kids no one else liked cause they were so annoying to be around. I just dont understand cant people just be happy with what god has made them. Vanessa I agree I knew both girls. They were more aquainted than you think. Esp one 86 girl who thought she was just on top of the world. I am merely reading the comments after viewing the movie and indeed if the movie mischaracterized Bernadette then her parents should sue them. So before you start judging Kirsten, first get facts. On the day of the event, Protti lied to Costas about having a party at her house in order to get him to leave her residence. I'm all over it! Just because there was bullying in a fictional movie, doesnt mean the Bernadette was bullied by Kirsten in real life. We all have moved on, and went on with our Lives since that tragic episode. Protti legally changed her name and departed to another location to start a new family following the traumatic incident. I hear Kirsten was Cocky and Arrogant, but not any Bully. So sad her life was shortened. She wasnt interested in helping outcast kids, cause she wanted to be in, and she was popular to from my standpoint of view. Her parole would have gone ahead sooner apparently but in 1992 one of the parole board Victor Wisehart voted to keep her in jail as she showed an inability to control her anger and he felt that she was still a danger to the public, she had had a violent altercation with a boyfriend in the prison/school system, he said there was a hidden trigger that switched on when she didnt get her own way! Being disgusted that the murderer allowed two innocent girls to be accused of the murder? Real class comes from decent human beings who have respect for others, and treating others the way that they want to be treated. I was told she had no known enemies. Kirsten was very Popular, but there were a few a little more Popular, why didnt Bern go after them and befriend them, the girls on Homecoming Court, and in the Atlantis Club. She had an issue, and if what Kirstens friends say are right about her and being so bold to outspoken maybe she recognized that the girl wasnt wrapped too tight but being young didnt know the term, hence calling her weird. Birthday: 12/20. 3 decades later thats ridiculous. I heard from an article from her friends mom, Kirsten wasnt exclusive and liked everyone. Bernadettes parents also left Orinda, but its unknown if they left the state of California. I think its time to move forward and put this whole horrible deal behind you cause life is way to short. Bern wasnt one of them, in fact, (as I said) she was well liked and in with a lot of the i crowd. Maybe it wasnt a big national story at the time, and was more of a California Bay area story (Im from Illinois). Theres way to much in Life than to be spending it chasing someone around over 30 years ago the justice system failed, its just pointless. Or someone who stares at you constantly, you got a problem doing that. Get a Life please. If she would of left her alone, Kirsten wouldnt of ever bothered her, those TV movies Kirsten wasnt nothing like Tori Spelling, in the 2nd movie a little maybe she was like that girl, but more funnier. I know a person who knew her, she was a snob, so to speak, but she didnt deserve to die. Seems like alot of a holes justifying others that are a holes sorry no justification theres no reason to act like an a hole young or old, you treat all ppl with respect and the way you yourself would like to be treated dont need parents or Bible school to learn morality, any person who trust to justify any bad behavior has no morality or class in my opinion, and theres a post somewhere that says girls went along with bullying so they werent the ones being bullied lol, what a sad excuse thats called being a coward and a follower and has nothing to do with popularity depending on what ones warped definition is of popularity its not how a person looks or what they have or how they act but how they are perceived by what they do by inspiring ppl its being admirable and nothing is admirable about acting like trash talking scans that need to put others down to feel better about themselves thats just lowlives that probably pick on the handicaps as well real big of them, thats no one by definition that I popular some ppl must have thier definition all messed up and who says theyre popular anyway them lol Im sure every group thought they were the special ones, but by lowering ones level to picking on other ppl harassing demeaning and taunting them eventually theyre going to come across the wrong ppl who dont take that bs, and Im not justifying murder but it takes more than a bad comment on a pair of boots to push someone to that point, Im sure she didnt share all of the abuse she was subjected to, but I definitely compare scum that target other ppl to feel better about themselves like the leader of the holocaust and if thousands or plausibly millions werent followers of some psycho with an inflated ego than millions of ppl would have never been tortured or murdered all because scum bags like the ones that come up with excuses for bad behavior cant stand up for whats right because theyre pathetic loosers that are too afraid to stand up for whats right and they ate no better those ppl who did nothing and followed hitler were all conspirators and complicit and there are a multitude of cases just like that which is why ppl need to stop with there warped sense of wanting to belong to some misfit group that is the furthered thing from what is popular is really all about. She was happy go lucky mostly, she only had a couple (she didnt like), we all have someone we do t get long with. She dont go hardly anywhere anymore. [3] The Costases' neighbors called an ambulance, but Kirsten was mortally wounded and died at a nearby hospital. It has changed a bit in Backyard Hockey because in the older games, her outfit looks like overalls. MSW Student @ Ohio University. Her inadequacies were all created by her and in her own head and she murdered Kirsten as a result. You are full of it. Anonymous, Kirsten had a bigger heart than people knew about. If you werent Popular she looked down on you just as bad as Kirsten did. I was the daughter of a single mom who was a teacher. I know right. I bet when you were 15 Sarah you were mouthy to, like Kirsten and all teens. In the meantime, and along with the rest of the town, I watched this whole tale unfold sadly and slowly during the course of several months. So please stop drudging up the past and move on with your lives please. She loved to play Nancy Drew. Honestly! I still have nightmares of many girlfriends ignoring me, making fun of me and being just vicious. Sensing something fishy, Kirsten escaped from the car, but Protti followed her home and attacked her there with a kitchen knife.
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